Nine Months in the Making

So, I haven't posted anything on this blog in 9 months. My apologies. It's been a wierd and trying year. I'll try to do better going forward.

So what's new?

I'm not even sure where to begin!

First and foremost, I've decided to embrace crossdressing on an entirely new level. Not only do I wear feminine things around the house, but now I wear skirts and nylons at work, too! At first, it was very hush-hush. I'd have pants in the truck with me (I'm a short-haul truck driver), in case any of my fellows (employees of my company) were around. A quick changeroo would keep my secret from the other drivers and support personnel. Out and about in public, I would boldly go about my day in my skirt, giving exactly zero thought to what anyone around me noticed or thought of what they thought they noticed. This worked out fairly well for a time, but it wasn't enough.

Since roughly the start of September, having decided that I have to be who I am, regardless of people's reactions, I have been wearing my skirts (and hosiery) openly, even at work, even in the presence of my coworkers. Want to know a secret? Very few people notice, and of those, nobody has said a word about it. I've caught some questioning glances and have been mistaken for wearing shorts more than once, but not a single soul has commented or asked about the skirts, much to my disappointment. I have responses thought out and ready to fire off to anyone who asks -- "Yeah, it's a skirt. Men can wear skirts. It's comfortable, so why not?" Variations on that theme are what I believe will suffice.

Let's not be naive. I know that people will talk. I know they'll whisper and snigger, that they'll make jokes and little innuendos about me, sometimes to my face. I don't care in the least. In the end, I am who I am, I do what I do, and their approval is neither requested nor required.

It's a challenge to follow through with this decision, especially when it comes time to walk into the driver room, under the eyes of anyone who may be there, but I have done it many times now, and I am emboldened by the non-reactions I've experienced. Once, our operations manager (female) walked up behind me, unbeknownst to me, wished me (and another driver who was there) a good weekend, then strode off into the inner workings of the office complex. I was clearly wearing a skirt (a pretty blue and black LulaRoe Cassie), but she didn't seem to notice. If she did notice, she played it off perfectly.

In other news...

I had a couple outings (and when I say "I", I mean Janey) -- one in August and the other in November, which went VERY well -- far better than that train wreck in March. I learned my lesson. Janey needs to stick to Janey-safe places.

I even posed for a few photos. Wanna see?

These are from the August outing. Yes, I know they look awful. That wig was a huge mistake, and will never be seen atop my head again!

I'm much more fond of these photos, partly because the wig is so much better, but also because I wasn't showing off my stocking tops like a cheap trollop...LOL

Now you're in the know

Yeah, that's basically all I have to offer today. I'll try very hard to update this blog more often. If any of you are still reading it, thank you so much!!

Kisses,

Janey